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Shit Is Fucked Up And Bullshit

2 November 2022 | Posted in: NaBloPoMo 2022, Office Space

Protestor at Occupy Wall Street dressed in a black and white striped suit ala prison garb holding a hand lettered sign reading Shit is fucked up and bullshit. Photo by Scott Lynch
Photo by Scott Lynch, 04 Nov 2011

Occupy Wall Street had the best signs. As a protest slogan, “Shit is fucked up and bullshit” pretty much sums up the frustration and anger that has been bubbling in this country for a decade.

And it’s also really brilliant in the way it reflects a sort of inchoate understanding that we have reached a point in human history where despite the wins of the past, and despite the optimism of the young, all gains and all joy are local.

The media, like the machines in The Matrix, have figured out that to keep humans pliable, to keep them inline, we need a certain amount of anxiety and frustration. They feed us a steady diet of crime and potential crime, both real and fictional, raising the general level of anxiety such that we don’t know what to do with happiness. At this point in late-stage capitalism, happiness makes us uneasy in a way we don’t quite recognize.

Sure, we’ve got comfort. There’s the big screen TV, all the streaming entertainment you could possibly want, books galore, music on demand. We have access to our friends lives, or the version of their lives they want us to see, at the tap of a finger mediating our need for human interaction. You can even order frozen, prepared dinners and an appliance in which to cook them, out sourcing the most basic choice a human can make to some corporate entity.

But all of that doesn’t make us happy. I narcotizes us. It preps us to be more efficient workers, better cogs in the machine earning money more money faster for our corporate overlords. With efficiency as the prime driver in corporate America, is it any wonder we have so much more narcissism than we used to?

Empathy is inefficient. If someone I work with shows up in distress and I have empathy, I sit with them, letting them externally processes or helping them find an answer to whatever is causing that distress as they so desire, and that costs time away from getting the work I’m being paid to do completed.

The malignant narcissist, however, sees all relationships as transactional, interacting with people only to extract the value they can provide. It’s focused, efficient human interaction. And it’s why so much of tech culture centers on lone genius paving the way for a new world. Don’t believe me? Just see Elon Musk’s Twitter feed.

Shit is fucked up and bullshit pretty much sums it up.

The Rise of a New Trope

6 February 2022 | Posted in: Thought That Came Unbidden

It is our third pandemic winter and I am starved for novelty. TGF and I drove downtown to pick up carryout last night and it was the first time in a month I’d left my zip code and the first time in two weeks I’d left the house. Literally. I work at home now. I […]

And so the king is once again my guest

1 November 2021 | Posted in: NaBloPoMo 2021

Let me spoil it for you at the start: I should be writing a novel starting today. I am not. Instead, I find myself contemplating National Blog Posting Month as an alternate November. Again. We are entering a third pandemic winter. Third. Not second. Third. And I am tired. I am tired of this pandemic. […]

The World

29 August 2021 | Posted in: Thought That Came Unbidden

I’ve been thinking a lot about the Viet Nam War lately. Probably because for my birthday I bought myself a boxed set on DVD of China Beach, possibly one of the finest pieces of network television ever made. If you missed the show in its brief run between 1988 and 1991, it follows a cast […]

Illusion of Safety

22 August 2021 | Posted in: Thought That Came Unbidden

In retrospect, reading a book about a pandemic during a pandemic probably wasn’t the smartest choice. Station Eleven by Emily St. John Mandel is a beautiful book which really isn’t about a pandemic at all in the same way that the current dumpster fire that is our world isn’t about the raging pandemic either. It […]

Never get involved in local politics

2 May 2021 | Posted in: Thought That Came Unbidden

Dear Neighbors, I’ve heard a lot of things over the past 90 minutes. Let me start by saying that I don’t appreciate the personal attacks. For some reason, you’ve chosen to make me the villain of the story you are telling about the traffic issue. The only reason I’m presenting the data here is because […]

Sometimes you’re the bug

8 March 2021 | Posted in: Office Space

Well, the first two months of the year turned out to be a complete shitshow. Actually, the first 25 days of January were just fine. There was even vegetarian haggis for Burns Night. It’s better than it sounds, really. But then the 10 minute meeting happened. Pro-tip: when you and most of your department get […]

2,520 minutes in 138 days

2 January 2021 | Posted in: Thought That Came Unbidden

I started 2021 with six habit tracker programs installed on my phone. Not from any obsessiveness, because I discovered something interesting about myself last year: I’m one of those people who is motivated by continuity. Like a stereotypical urbanite creative, I started meditating recently. To my credit, I actually started before “these trying times” way […]

Happiest Season (2020)

19 December 2020 | Posted in: Movie Review

Remember that time you thought “If Hallmark just made holiday movies that were a little bit less heteronormative, the holiday season would be perfect!” You were wrong. Happiest Season centers on Abby (Kristen Stewart) and Harper (Mackenzie Davis) as a couple who have gotten far enough along in their relationship that they’ve moved in together […]

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Happiest Season (2020)

Remember that time you thought “If Hallmark just made holiday movies that were a little bit less heteronormative, the holiday season would be perfect!” You were wrong. Happiest Season centers on Abby (Kristen Stewart) and Harper (Mackenzie Davis) as a couple who have gotten far enough along in their relationship that they’ve moved in together […]

Digital bankruptcy

There is too much noise in the world. Too many news stories, sales, random email lists we can’t remember subscribing to, and apps demand our attention constantly. And I’m just talking about grabs that come from engaging with your computer, be it desktop or laptop. As recently as 6 years ago, people were doing research […]

Rules for survival

Rules for survival come in all shapes and sizes. Some rules only apply to certain situations. Don’t bring up a problem without having a potential solution and never embarrass your boss in front of people higher up in the structure are two rules that primarily apply in the work place. Some rules for survival are […]

By the numbers

Height: 5′ 9″/1.75 meters Weight: 174 lbs/78.9 kilos Trips around the sun: 18,728 days, 6 hours, 33 minutes and 0 seconds Times I’ve been in physical therapy: 2 Degrees: 2 Professional certificates: 1 Full-time jobs held: 12 or 13 depending on how you count Books written: 6 Books read: too many to count Movies seen: […]

You can never go wrong with lights

There’s something comforting about lights in the dark. It appeals to our most base instincts around self-soothing. Light, we think, gives as more control and more control equals a higher chance of survival. Most winter festivals are about lights. You see it all over Europe where Christmas markets with their colorful lights, food stalls, and […]

Differential consumerism

Last night I had a dream that I was at dinner with Janet Yellin of today and Michael Madsen circa 1995. My brain can be a real asshole sometimes. The Janet Yellin bit roots squarely in the fact that today is Buy Nothing Day. I’ve written about Buy Nothing Day multiple times in this blog […]

Gratitude matters

There are at least half a dozen reasons why I tend to focus on the negative aspects of any event. For practical, daily impact, the why of me tending that way isn’t important. What matters for daily life is steering that tendency into something else. I admit I was skeptical. There is so much bullshit […]

Calculated risk

Medical professionals, amplified by the news media, have been vocal about their opposition to holiday gatherings this year. Who can blame them? The pandemic is out of control. The pandemic is out of control because Americans don’t want to do what is necessary, and they aren’t trained to think about systems and consequences. I know […]

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